Perseverance is an admirable attribute. Monarch butterflies migrate over 3,000 miles on their fragile wings – persevering through harsh elements and predators – to warmer climates. Men and women serving in the military persevere through long separations from their families. Cancer victims persevere through treatments that often make them feel worse than the cancer itself. And some old men persevere, despite the odds, at the pursuit of younger women.
Whether these men think they’re still desirable, or they just want to give it one last shot, remains a mystery. But their tenacity is commendable and the methods they use to seduce their prey are rather intriguing. The wooing tactics old men commonly utilize can be narrowed down to three approaches: creative, debonair and reckless.
The debonair approach is considered the most commonly used method by old men in their pursuit of younger ladies. The debonair approach tends to include an invitation of some sort; such as dinner or a cup of coffee. The debonair approach also handles any rejection with dignity. While grocery shopping one hot August day, my mother was approached by an old man wearing galoshes and a raincoat (it was sunny out). He asked my mom if she would like to return to his apartment after she had finished shopping. When my mother declined, the old man shrugged and said, “Figured it was worth a shot” before walking away.
Other old men are not quite as bold and use a more flattering technique. A friend of mine was recently in the cafeteria of the hospital where she works when an elderly gentleman greeted her. “Excuse me,” he said, “But do you ever get tired of old men telling you how pretty you are? Because you are prettier than free fried chicken.” In this incidence the creative approach was utilized. Other analogies that have been used in the creative approach are “prettier than Ava Gardner”, “prettier than Niagara Falls” and “prettier than a car hop.” The problem with the creative approach is that along with it sounding a bit odd, it also tends to date the individual.
Some old men throw caution to the wind and make their move with gusto. This can be defined as the reckless approach. The reckless approach is the most disturbing for the female because it often involves physical contact. An example of the reckless approach is when I was a medical social worker and an elderly patient grabbed my arm and attempted to pull me in for a smooch. After I wrenched myself free, the patient proceeded to purse his lips and make kissing noises. The fact that I was clearly disgusted meant nothing to him. Typically, those who resort to the reckless approach do so out of desperation (or dementia), caring only about the end result and not so much as how they arrive there.
While the perseverance of old men pursuing young women isn’t as noble as, say, medical school or Navy Seal training – their efforts must be commended. As Confucius said, “It does not matter how slowly you go, as long as you do not stop.”
OK. Am I evil for rooting for the guy in the raincoat? Am I bad for pulling for the guy in the hospital?
My wife, a nurse, once came home and told me that some old man (patient) told her that he needed lotion on his … parts. So, she gave him lotion and told him to apply it himself. The old guy, bless his heart, then made his reckless move and told her it would feel much better if she did it.
At this story, I pumped my fist and laughed. Catherine didn’t speak to me for the rest of the night.
I was apparently evil. And bad.
I weep for any nurse that has to take care of you Adam. Maybe the hospital will assign some large, grumpy male nurse named Egor. Then Catherine will be pumping her fist and laughing. 😉
LOL I wish I was prettier than free fried chicken. Once an old man stopped me on the streets of Trenton to ask me of I would have lunch with him. When I said “no,” he said, “I knew you would say that,” and was all heartbroken. I almost reconsidered out of guilt!
Oh Jess – that is hysterical! He used the Debonair Method. I should have considered the issue of “rejection guilt” when writing this!
Haha! It WAS the Debonair Method! Rejection guilt is a side effect for the innocent victims !
I’ve heard a lot of lines but damn it, I’ve never heard that I’m prettier than free fried chicken. That is just too funny. Great post!
Thanks for reading! And you are right, “free fried chicken” is pretty original. The more I thought about it, though, I realized that free fried chicken is indeed a beautiful thing!
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I don’t know whether I’m glad to be too young as to avoid these situations, or upset because nothing this funny has ever happened to me. Even though it’s a bit creepy, they deserve props for trying. I wonder if its the same way for cougars.
That is a very good question! How do cougars prowl?